Often times you might find it difficult to connect to the megillah, parsha or something like that, but I think that some things in Eicha are easy to relate to especially because Yerushaliam is personified. Yerushaliam goes through a cycle of something bad happening similarly to how we do. We constantly do actions and behave in certain ways and it always helps to take a minute and think about why you are doing it to try and understand yourself. The way Yerushaliam goes through trauma can really make us see how we go through a similar process.
        Sometimes when we do something we don't necessarily understand it, but seeing the situation laid out in front of you, regarding someone else can really help you see.
        Looking at the stages Yerushaliam goes through I can definitely see myself going through almost the same process. Now that I have seen it in a situation that is not my own personal situation I recognize what I do. Because of this I have really been able to learn the megillah on a deeper level as I directly see how it connects to my life.